DSLAMs are usually placed as close as practical to the CPE -- because it's distance constrained. So they can be in someone's yard, hanging on a pole, buried in a vault (CEV), or in a nearby CO. The upstream connection to the DSLAM could be going almost anywhere -- T-carrier and OC lines aren't so distance sensitive. In my experience, ATM (and frame) switches, and multiplexers, are in COs (or remote offices.) They are interconnected in a loop ("ring"), and/or mesh. The broadband aggregation router(s) (BRAS) can be anywhere (CO, RO, DC, closet in a shopping mall...); they just need power, and links to the ATM network and IP network.
(Ours were in major COs, as were the four (4) ATM switches. Frame-relay switches were in every CO.)
Note: as these are layer-2 technologies, they cannot be detected by traceroute
. The only way to know about them is for the operator(s) to tell you about them. As you have zero control over them, you rarely need to know about them. [You're paying someone to connect point A to point B; how they do it isn't your problem.]